There are lots of things you should not argue about their change
When we talk of change we don't only mean positive, we also mean otherwise.
You cannot change someone's attitude towards you, you won't change the weather. You cannot change time. That means if you cannot change them but you, you have the capacity to change the way you look at things, your judgement, your decision and your control over your lifestyle, that is just enough.
How do you vote?