Stop taking your professions into marriage. Professions and marriage will corride.
Fellow Unicornian and YEM holders, my humble advise is please stop professionalising your marriage/family. I have seen many people who are professionals end up staying a single life. When you try follow the causes of their marital problems/separation/divorce, they tell you that my partner was too much professional at home. While in love, professionalism is not needed at all. Professionalism should stop at work. While at home you need to be flexible, so as not to strain your partner. If you are a lawyer, following laws should stop in in courts or in your cars. When you get home, be free for the good of your marriage/family.
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