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Thou we are in the generation where by everyone care at his or her own child but also you May find that children grow up with bad behaviours.
By then it was of great value in those days because parents were equally to bring up a achild in an organsed way but now its hard.
added by Anonymous 1137 days ago 0    0

Parents, let us try our best to make sure our children represent us well. I am sure you will feel good if you come to your children’s school and people are pointing at you as the parent of the best behaved child in the school. Won’t you?

Make sure your hosts and the hosts of your children are always impressed to have you and/or your children around.
Good luck**
added by Anonymous 1154 days ago 1    0

Make sure your children know God. Salvation is not hereditary; that you are godly or highly spiritual is not a guarantee that your children are saved. You must consciously and deliberately lead them to God . Pray together with them as a family and take them along to the place of worship.
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Teach your children to control their appetite and learn to turn down certain food offers, even when such offers come from people they know. And at home, it is not compulsory that they must taste everything they see someone eating. This will help them to take their eyes away from certain things when they are in other people’s home.
added by Anonymous 1154 days ago 1    0

Children should be taught to relate well with people around them, much more than they do with unknown friends they meet online. Please, discourage this idea of them locking themselves in the room for hours without communicating with anyone in the house – all because they are on phone chatting or playing games.
added by Anonymous 1154 days ago 1    0

Always remind your child that jumping into a conversation when adults are talking is a sign of being ill-mannered. Discourage this both in your home and elsewhere. Otherwise people will think I'll of both you and the child.

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Always dress appropriately as an example to your children, and guide them on how to dress well all the time, especially when they are spending time with another family.

You carelessly allow your daughters to dress in bum shots and your sons to walk about with their chest bare in your home, but they may not be safe if they do so in another place. You may not know where a predator would lie in wait for a child.
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Teach your children the importance of taking good care of their body and their environment; whether they are at home or elsewhere. Remind them that responsible people don’t leave their rooms unkempt or their bed unmade when they get up in the morning; teach them to bath very well and smell fine always. It is unbearable to have a smelly young person around you; let them take care of their armpits, teeth, hair, nail, etc.
They should also be able to manage their used clothes and other personal belongings very well, whether in their home or elsewhere. It can be irritating to have dirty clothes or shoes, especially those of a visitor litter every corner of the house.
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Teach children about the good toilet manners – they must know how to keep the toilet neat for the next user, let them know that it is unacceptable to leave the bathroom floor and/or walls messed with soap, foam or any form dirt after bathing
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Teach your children to be useful and make their impact felt positively wherever they are found – in the school, place of worship, in another person’s home, etc.
Encourage them to always leave a good impression wherever they go to; teach them to be courteous, respectful, friendly, cheerful and helpful.
added by Anonymous 1154 days ago 1    0

Give your children age-appropriate domestic tasks, even if you have a thousand and one domestic servants at home. It is sheer ignorance to think that doing everything for your children is a mark of honour or a way of bequeathing royalty on them.
These tasks/chores help them to grow up with a sense of responsibility.
added by Anonymous 1154 days ago 1    0

Yes because children are too exposed to the world, technology is taking over our children , just imagine a child of two years can operate a phone.

added by Anonymous 1156 days ago 3    0

Usually parents fear to address sensitive issues with their children and because of anxiety the children will either search for answers on the internet or from the wrong people. Sometimes the kind of advice they get may drive them into wrong actions.
added by FATUMAH MAGALA 1157 days ago 3    0

Some parents keep supporting the children even when it's evident that they are in the wrong. Such children will intentionally misbehave knowing that he/she can run to mummy or daddy for support. Eventually it becomes hard or even impossible to discipline the children.
added by FATUMAH MAGALA 1157 days ago 3    0

We have a traditional behavior in buganda of eating together as a family. we locally call it "OLUJJULIRO" . With this the parents can notice who is late for the meal,who is sitting badly, chewing badly and then correct them. The chid grows up with this guidance right from OLUJJULIRO. We can also try it out in our homes whenever we can.
added by Anonymous 1157 days ago 4    0

Some parents say that the government stopped them from caning the children. But once you spare the rod the children get worse. With time, the children will become the bosses in the home and it won't be possible to discipline them. I suggest that we give Children some reasonable punishment when they do wrong so as to keep them on truck. But warn them first if no change is observed then you gapply punishment.
added by Anonymous 1157 days ago 3    0

The children of this generation cannot have any discipline given the examples portrayed by the parents by the way they speak,dress... .For example a parent can't convince a child to remove a skimpy dress when she the mother is wearing thin leggings with the stomach all out.
added by Anonymous 1157 days ago 3    0

parents need to spare time to sit down with their children regularly and have a friendly meeting. In such meetings,let the children do most of the talking. As you listen to them you will get to know what is hurting them, their needs and concerns. Such meetings usually bring about understanding between the parents and Children
added by Anonymous 1157 days ago 3    0

As parents we must remember the behaviors we had when we were young because these are mostly reflected back through our very own children. So we have to be understanding, forgiving and excercise patience while correcting their mistakes.
added by Anonymous 1157 days ago 3    0

We are in the modern world but I believe that it is still possible to raise Children with discipline. Let's apply a mixture of tradition and modernity both approach for our children. The cultural values especially will help bring back some discipline into these kids
added by Anonymous 1157 days ago 3    0

raising an upright child in this generation is really hard
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our grandparents hard many children yet it was somehow easy to bring them up with the best manners. maybe this was because child discipline was communal in that every elder in the community had all rights to impart discipline in every child be it theirs or not. however this is not the case nowadays.

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Children have no problem but its parents who make it a problem and most of the parents have aborted they responsibilites hoping who to help they children
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